Episode 2474 – On this Friday’s show Vinnie Tortorich welcomes author and life coach Treva Brandon Scharf and they discuss careers in fitness, being a late bloomer in life, dating, and more.
Being A Late Bloomer
- Treva and Vinnie have a history in their early days of Los Angeles. (3:00)
- She shares what she did in those days as well, also as a fitness trainer.
- Fitness training can be difficult and can create a high level of burnout.
- Both of them love Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich”. (26:00)
- They discuss “transmutation”.
- She explains how her life evolved around the age of 50. (32:00)
- Life Coaching is a way to help others reach their goals.
- Everyone is on their own timeline in addition to having false stories about themselves, which can make things more challenging. (44:00)
- She didn’t get married until age 50 and the timing was unexpected. (46:00)
- Vinnie shares a story about seeing young men and women on dates, yet they were looking down at their phones. (50:00)
- Treva doesn’t love apps as much as meeting people in real life.
- They discuss the challenges of approaching women today and all the qualifiers. (53:00)
- She gives suggestions for today’s dating environment.
- Treva’s book is called “Done Being Single.” (1:05:00) Find it and more in Vinnie’s Book Club https://amzn.to/49HaTxK
- It’s a type of self-help memoir which has a variety of stories and learning experiences.
- Her goal is to help people become their personal best, but there is a certain “acceptance” that needs to be done.
- They talk about a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset.
- You can find Treva at https://trevabrandonscharf.com @trevabme on Instagram.
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